Crush???

I’ve been crushed with girls several times. But most of time I’ve been disappointed by girls that I crushed with. I don’t know why??? Maybe I’m just not ready to love someone. The point is, every time I crushed to someone, my feeling is only temporary, after few weeks, then the feeling gone away. As for me, girls today are over reacting. I don’t mean that all girls, but most of the girls I met, they acting such a thing that I can accept.

They came to us with reasons, they need our help as they said “We are girls we can’t do this job, these are men job.” So, as a man, I try my best to help them. But, at the same time, these girls challenge men’s egos as they said men today totally Poyo Je Lebih. Plus, they challenged our egos with this kind of phrase “If man can do, we girls can do too!!!”

Aaaaaahhhh…. What is this??? I can’t accept this. Why must they challenge we guys??? The point is, our religion, Islam has stated, men are exist to be Khalifah in this world. So, girls who challenge guys are just same as challenging Allah.

I admit, things around us are complicated today. Women and men need to be more self reliable in order to survive as well as getting comfortable life. But, being self reliable (able to do what men can do) is not meaning to challenge guys or called us Poyo. Being self reliable just make things easier in any circumstances.

It’s hard to explain about these matters. I’m not a choosy person in terms of searching of my life partner. But the point is, I don’t want my future marriage becomes my future disaster. Marriage means sharing!!! Sharing both parents, children, siblings, roof to stay, love, care…. EVERYTHING!!!! So, what’s the point of winning something in a marriage???